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At 3 Months I Can --

  • recognize and tell differences between family members. 
  • sit with support. 
  • hold my chest and head up while lying on my stomach. 
  • gurgle and coo in response to sounds. 
  • make new sounds every day. 
  • turn my head toward sound. 
  • turn my head and notice bright colors and reach for objects. 
  • take part of my weight on my own legs when held steady. 
  • grasp a rattle placed in my fingers. 
  • suck two kinds of ways while I am nursing -- fast or in a slower way (read below to find out what I'm learning!).


You Can Help Me Learn and Grow! 
You Can: 

  • Help me learn how to pay attention. While I'm nursing or eating, put an object close to me to look at. Slowly move it away. This movement will make me stop sucking and "place-hold" until you put the object back. Why is this important? Because place-holding is holding myself ready to continue an activity that has been interrupted. It allows me to learn something about the object that was so fascinating. I am "taking in" information from the object, and then I use my "will" to continue nursing. This helps me learn how to pay attention to things! 
  • Play peek-a-boo with me. Cover your face with your hands, then open them and say "Boo!" Try moving to different parts of the room or hiding behind the furniture. 
  • Play games involving naming the baby's body parts over and over. Repeating words such as "nose," "eyes," "ears" starts him learning right away! 


"Thumbkin, Pointer" 

Thumbkin, pointer, middleman big. (point to each of baby's fingers.) Silly man, wee man, rig-a-jig-jig. (Roll baby's hands around each other.) 

Babies are hard at work whenever they are awake, trying to learn all about the world. To help them learn, you should give them many different safe things to play with and inspect. Objects you have around your home are good to use: 

  • Plastic colored bowls 
  • Measuring cups and spoons. 
  • Boxes and plastic containers. 
  • Noisemakers (rattles, keys) 

Put one or two of the items in a safe play area where your baby can reach them (more than two may confuse him). 


Give Me A Love Message! 

Tell me you love me by: 

  • Touching me --  Hold me gently and securely. 
  • Looking at me -- Look at me and smile. 
  • Hum, whistle, or sing to me -- If your voice is low, gentle, soothing, full of joy, and love, I will feel it! 
  • Rock me -- Find a rocker and use it while you give me the "love messages" above. 

Love messages help nurture me; this helps my brain to develop!! 


Safety Tips 

You are the most important watcher of your child's development. If your child has special needs, early help can make a difference. 

  • Get your baby's shots on time! 
  • Put your baby in a car seat every time you go somewhere! 
  • Check with your doctor first before you begin feeding solid foods. 
  • Watch out for toys that are stuffed or foam -- the baby shouldn't be able to pull or chew off anything and swallow it. 
  • Avoid toys with sharp edges, corners, or points -- they could hurt his eyes or mouth. 
  • Avoid toys that can break or splinter. 
  • Make sure strings on toys are shorter than 12 inches long. 
  • Once again -- remember to avoid any small toys -- make sure they are larger than the end of a paper towel tube. 
  • If you are bottle-feeding, it is important not to prop the bottle and leave your baby alone. Your baby needs to be held during this special feeding time. When a baby has a bottle in his mouth all night, the sugars in the juice or milk can cause new baby teeth to ruin. So, NO PROPPING during nap time, feeding time, or at night. 

Each child develops at his or her own rate. This information is meant to be a guide only.

For more information, contact your county Extension agent.


By Dr. Louise E. Davis, Child & Family Development Specialist

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Information Sheet 1604
Extension Service of Mississippi State University, cooperating with
U.S. Department of Agriculture. Published in furtherance of Acts of Congress, May 8 and June 30, 1914. Ronald A. Brown, Director

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